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Keep your favorite image, design, or words of inspiration close your heart with this beautiful square custom sterling silver plated necklace. Complete with a 18" sterling silver-plated chain (2" extender) and lobster claw clasp, this necklace is finished with a UV resistant and waterproof coating to protect your imagery for years to come. The necklace arrives in a special black felt bag that is perfect for gifting.

  • Sterling Silver-Plate.
  • Made in the USA.
  • UV Resistant and waterproof.
  • Add photos, artwork and text.
  • Charm diameter: 1.38".
  • Chain length: 18" with 2" extender.
About this design
At first it seems do-able. To take those wedding vows joining you to another person forever and ever, till death do you part. However, in a bad marriage, there are a grat many ways to die. Until it's over, let this pendant be a reminder to laugh at what otherwise gives cause to weep. There's an old wisdom that says, if you're strong enough to stay you're strong enough to leave. Our first duty is to be able to live with ourselves. For all the sisters in all the bad marriages. Love yourself enough to leave for the sake of your self. Because while you're trying to work it out, thinking you are what causes that man to be what he's become, know that that personality was in him before you met. And it's not your fault nor your responsibility. Make a list of all that troubles you about your man in your life. Then make another list as to what you'd prefer as the ideal man, if he'd only change. Then compare the lists. If the list of what you'd prefer is longer than the list of what troubles you, then the man you're looking for isn't the man you're with. And while you're there trying to work it out with a man that is who he is, and was before he came to know you, the ideal man bearing those positive characteristics you aspire to in a lover on that other list, is out there looking for you too. But you'll never know him, if you settle for less. And whatever you do, don't stay because of the kids. The example a dysfunctional couple set for those precious little sponges that see, hear and absorb that negative relationship that goes on before them, are learning from the role models those parents represent. And as a consequence the daughter will grow up and look for and settle for a man that's just like Dad. And the son will grow up and become him, and seek out a woman who's just like mom. Stop the madness. Set the example for your kids that they don't have to suffer, to call themselves a family. Sometimes love has to say goodbye. If you don't love yourself first, how will you ever respect that there's anything about you for someone else to love? Love doesn't hurt. Love doesn't make you cry yourself to sleep at night in misery. Love doesn't hurl insults, ridicule, abuse. Hate does. And when a woman settles for that and then says, when asked by others; why don't you leave? Because I love him. What that woman is saying is she loves the abuse. She loves he that cheats on her and risks her very life in an age of AIDS and HIV. She loves that she could contract chlamydia, which bears no symptoms but left undetected and untreated will make a woman sterile for life. She loves the pain, the suffering, the insults, the death of her sense of self and self esteem. She loves it! Because she says she loves the man, the husband, that brings her all that in her relationship to him. That isn't love. That's hate. Buying this necklace won't save you from the world, nor a bad marriage. However, it may bring things into perspective a bit. To learn to laugh, to smile again, to realize you chose to marry and you can choose to divorce. Only you know what you're worth. And I don't know the woman who may be looking at this necklace in my collection and reading this description of it right now. However, I do know if any of my words ring true that she is worth more than feeling less than as a wife. ((((HUGS))))
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Product ID: 177831421046237985
Created on: 3/7/2011 10:12 AM
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