This pillow is something every military wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, fiance, mom, dad, children, anyone who loves a soldier should have for those long nights where you wish you could just go hug them and give them a kiss and tell them how much you love them while they are off in a foreign country fighting for our freedom. You can keep the keep calm and wait for him if you want but I made everything so you can change it to fit what you want. On the back you can add a picture of him or her and a letter or note from them. You can change all the colors and text to match the colors of the branch the enlisted is in. Makes a great gift for anyone going through a deployment.