Grandmother to 3 girls, ages 1,2,3. I am 57, have lost 2 sons and almost lost my youngest son (he has a good spirit ). I have a married daughter who is VERY spirited, but she listens to me. My stepdaughter is married, she has t he 2yr old and she is a mature young lady. My ex hus left me after 20 yrs for a 15 yr. old cocaine addict and prostute. He loves to save women-damn sex addict. Pr aise Jesus, my husband now is t he most wonderful gift that God has ever given me. I must have been a good girl in the Lord's book because He is Blessing me. Listen-be happy, full of joy! Secret to happiness---do NOT think of yourself, only others. I t works to serve, I'm always happy even in trouble because Jesus Christ, My Lord, is always with me.