Why Wedding Cards Matter More Than You Think
Once in a lifetime, two people take the plunge and decide to do life together – for better, for worse, for every argument over what they want to watch on Netflix and in between. Whether they met while competing for the last muffin in the break room, locked eyes across a crowded party, got ambushed by their matchmaking friends or relatives, or just woke up and realized that significant other was the one all along – love always finds a way! Despite the joy we feel and the happiness we want to express for them, finding the right words can be challenging. That’s why we’re here to help! Today, we’ll guide you through wedding card messages across specific categories, so you can find the perfect words to honor the incredible couple on their big day.
The Building Blocks of Beautiful Wedding Messages
There are four things you need to know when creating the ideal wedding message. First, start strong by skipping generic openings and instead reference how you met them or what you admire about their relationship. Next, make your message heartfelt through a brief memory, a quality you admire in each of them, or what their relationship has taught you about love. Then, focus on the future with specific hopes rather than generic wishes: what adventures do you imagine them having together? Finally, sign off with warmer than just “Love, Your Name” by considering phrases like “With joy for your future” or “Celebrating you both.”
Messages for Every Wedding
Heartfelt Wedding Messages
“Two very special people, one special day. On this beautiful and lovely occasion, I wish you a shower of love.”
“Wishing you both a lifetime of everlasting love and happiness!”
Funny Wedding Messages
“In the sock drawer of life, you two make the perfect pair.”
“May the happiest moment of your wedding be when you realize you no longer need to plan a wedding..”
“Congratulations, you’re now o-fish-ially Mr & Mrs (Surname)!”
“You’ve found someone who laughs at your jokes and still thinks you’re attractive in the morning. That’s true love right there!”
Wedding Messages for Family Members
“Watching you grow into the incredible person you are today has been one of my greatest joys. Seeing you find someone who loves you the way you deserve makes my heart so full. Welcome to the family!”
“Family isn’t just about blood – it’s about the people who choose to love and support you. Welcome to our family. We already love you like you’ve always been here.”
“I mean, I don’t really understand why you picked my brother, but I’m glad you did!”
Wedding Messages for Your Best Friend
“To my best friend I’ve had forever, and the one I’m about to gain, I couldn’t be happier for you both if I tried. Some best friends would say ‘take care of them for me,’ but I know I don’t have to worry about that when it comes to you two.”
“You’ve always been the person I call with my best news and worst days. Now you have someone even better for that job! Congratulations, and welcome to the family!”
Religious Wedding Messages
“May your union be blessed with divine love and guidance. Wishing you both a marriage filled with spiritual joy, peace, and countless blessings on your sacred journey together.”
“May the Lord bless your lives together with His Love, Peace and Joy.”
“Congratulations on this blessed occasion! May your marriage be a source of spiritual growth and may you always find comfort and joy in your love for one another and your faith.”
“May your marriage be blessed with unending love and laughter, Mazel Tov!”
Wedding Messages for Same-Sex Weddings
“Love wins, and today we get to celebrate that truth with you both. Your love story inspires everyone around you, and we’re so grateful to witness this beautiful milestone.”
“Watching you two together shows us what authentic love looks like. Thank you for being brave enough to live your truth and for showing us all what it means to choose love.”
“True love is rare and beautiful, regardless of who we fall in love with. You two have found something special, and we’re honored to celebrate this milestone with you.”
Make Your Words Stick (In the Best Way)
In a world of quick texts and emojis, actually writing by hand is a memorable event. Your handwriting becomes part of the memory, even if it’s a little messy (maybe especially if it’s a little messy). Timing-wise, you’ve got options: slip them your card in the receiving line for a quick hug and happy tears, or if you’re close with the couple, find a quieter moment to hand it over for something more personal. Picture this – years down the road, they’ll stumble across your card while digging through old boxes, and boom, instant nostalgia will take them back to their very special day.
Wrapping It Up: Here’s to Love!
It’s your chance to get a little sappy, cheer on your favorite humans, and be part of something meaningful. Whether it’s true love, lifelong partnership, or just two people who make each other ridiculously happy, it’s all worth celebrating. So grab that card and write something real, whether it’s for your sister, your college roommate, that coworker you actually like, or even your second cousin twice removed. Your words matter more than you think. And if you want more inspiration or you’re writing thank you cards as the couple, definitely check out these guides for tons of wording ideas for both sides of the equation: “Memorable Wedding Thank You Card Quotes to Show Your Gratitude!” and “Wedding Thank You Card Wording Tips & Etiquette.”
Meg is a Content Specialist at Zazzle in Cork. Born and bred Corkonian. An avid animal lover with two cats named Beamish and Biscuit, a dog named Fudge, a fish called Panda and a fiancé called Leigh. Favorite pastimes include wearing anything animal print, vintage and charity shopping, venturing down the rabbit-hole on niche conspiracy theories, reading books and board games.
