We’ve all seen this movie before. A person decides to propose, goes in search of the perfect ring, enlists a well-meaning friend’s advice for various details, and finally pops the question. It (usually) goes off without a hitch.
But this is real life, and your supporting cast may not be quite so instrumental in helping you figure out how to propose. Perfect your process by going over this wedding proposal checklist. It’s designed to assist you during what may well be one of the most important moments of your life — so no pressure or anything.
What to Do Before You Propose
You’ve decided to ask your special someone to marry you, to be by your side for eternity, to grow old with you. This is huge. But first you need to actually ask the question, and for that you’ll need to take care of a few pre-proposal tasks.
Relax and Breathe
It may sound a little hokey, but those nerves can make it tough to actually enjoy the moment. If you’re so keyed up about whether or not your love will say yes or whether they’ll love the ring or not, you may end up focusing on all the wrong things instead of what really matters most: committing yourself to a person who means the world to you. Remember that and you’ll absolutely glide through everything else without a single fear.
Ask for Permission
If you plan to ask your significant other’s parents for their blessing, it’s important to do that before anything else. Treat them to lunch or get on a conference call with them if they aren’t nearby and explain how much you love your soon-to-be spouse. Tell them that you’re planning to propose and that you’d be honored to receive their blessing. The rest is in their court — just remind them not to let the cat out of the bag!
Select a Ring
It’s possible that you and your future spouse have already shopped for rings. If that’s the case, you’re probably on the right path already. But if this is a complete surprise in every way, then you need to do a little bit of detective work. Get an idea of their preferred style by talking with close friends who might have an idea (and who know how to keep a secret, naturally). You can figure out the right size by snagging a ring sizer and matching it to an existing ring in your beloved’s jewelry box.
Insure the Ring
Given that an engagement ring is a pretty special investment, it’s important to insure it against damage or theft. You can either add the ring to your renter’s or homeowner’s insurance if it’s covered or purchase a separate policy through a fine jewelry insurer. Always seek out reputable companies that offer a variety of plans and take the time to answer all your questions.
Devise Your Plan
Now it’s time to put your creative muscles to work and devise a proposal that you’ll both remember forever. Think about what makes you two tick as a couple. Are you known for your offbeat senses of humor? Do you love wining and dining? Are you all about spending time with your friends and family? Zero in on what means the most to you both, then use that as your starting point. You might propose at the place where you first met or kissed. Or you may want to propose in front of the people who mean the most to you both.
Gather Your Props
A few props go a really long way in making your proposal extra special. Think about the little extras that could set the tone for the moment. If it’s dim, adding a few candles for warm lighting is a great idea. If you’re proposing in the park, a fluffy blanket and an arrangement of your love’s favorite flowers are essential. If you’re planning to eat beforehand, stick with simple foods that aren’t too sticky or messy, and make sure you have a bottle of celebratory wine or whatever they love on hand!
Plan a Celebratory Party
Celebration time! It doesn’t matter if your group is small and intimate or loud and boisterous. What matters is that you’ve gathered the people that you love the most. Send out engagement party invitations that reflect your personalities, and don’t be afraid to go all out. A cute tote is such a fun way to let everyone in on the news. Personalized mugs for each of you will give you something to smile about with every sip.
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