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Why Matching Wedding Party Gifts Are Having a Moment
If you’ve spent any time on Instagram or TikTok lately, you’ll know that the “getting ready” content has become just as important as the wedding itself. The matching robes, the champagne toast, the perfectly curated flat lays – it’s all part of the show. And honestly? We’re here for it. There’s been a genuine shift in how couples think about their wedding parties. Where a token gift might have once done the job, today’s bridesmaids and groomsmen are being treated to completely personalized, thoughtful gifts that go about and beyond (a heartfelt handwritten card to go with it never hurts either.)
Couples are also finding more moments to gift throughout the whole wedding journey. From the bridesmaid proposal box to the morning-of hamper, the rehearsal dinner invitations, or post-wedding thank-you cards – there are plenty of opportunities to show your people some love. In this article, we’ll cover everything from the key gifting occasions to top his and hers gift ideas – from personalized glassware and hip flasks to tote bags, matching apparel and hampers – and how to customize everything so it feels just right. Whether you’re buying for two people or twenty, we’ve got you covered!
When to Give Wedding Party Gifts
Timing is everything. Here’s a quick breakdown of the key gifting moments to plan around:
The Proposal Gift – Before anything else, you’ve got to ask, and a little gift box when you pop the “will you be my bridesmaid/groomsman?” question sets the tone and gets everyone excited from day one. Keep it simple but personal – a scented candle with a custom label, a personalized keyring, or a pair of novelty socks with something cheeky printed on them all work a treat.
The Morning-Of Gift – This is the big one. Gifts opened on the morning of the wedding are pure gold for photos and videos. Think of things that can be worn or used during the getting-ready process. Personalized jewelery for the bridesmaids – a delicate bracelet or initial necklace – and engraved cufflinks for the groomsmen are a timeless pairing that photographs beautifully and doubles as something they can wear on the day itself.
The Rehearsal Dinner – A slightly more relaxed occasion, which makes it a great moment for something fun and personal! It’s also a good chance to gift both parties at the same time if you want to do a big reveal. Personalized coasters are a surprisingly well-received gift – understated, useful, and easy to coordinate across his and hers versions. Custom playing cards are another fun option, and can be tailored to the wedding party to get everyone laughing before the big day nerves kick in.
The Post-Wedding Thank-You – Often overlooked, but incredibly meaningful. A thoughtful gift after the big day says “we haven’t forgotten everything you did” – because trust us, they did a lot. Consider a personalized photo frame ready for a wedding day snap, or a print featuring the wedding date or a meaningful quote, which gives them something to display at home to think of you every time they walk past it. For the groomsmen, a monogrammed wallet is a quality keepsake that will genuinely get daily use.
The Best His & Hers Matching Wedding Party Gift Ideas
Right, let’s get to the good stuff. The key to nailing his and hers gifting is choosing products that complement each other – same theme, different style. Here’s what works brilliantly:
Glassware – Champagne flutes for the bridal party, whisky tumblers or pint glasses for the groom’s side. Personalize them with names, wedding dates, or roles (nothing beats taking a drink from a glass that says “Best Man” on it). They’re also guaranteed to get used long after the confetti has been swept up!
Hip Flasks – A groomsmen classic, obviously. But here’s the thing – hip flasks are having a serious moment with bridesmaids too! A sleek, personalized flask filled with something delicious is a gift that crosses the his-and-hers divide beautifully. Engrave them with initials or a cheeky inside joke and you’ve got an instant keepsake.
Tote Bags – Tote bags are perfect for the wedding party morning kit – fill them with goodies, and they double up as the gift and the packaging. Coordinate the designs or color palettes across his-and-hers versions to keep things feeling cohesive without being too matchy-matchy.
T-Shirts & Matching Apparel – If there’s one thing that photographs well, it’s a coordinated getting-ready outfit. Slogan tees, matching color themes, or something a little more understated – whatever fits your vibe. Another option is baseball caps. These are another great addition to the mix, whether that’s a simple embroidered initial, a bridal party slogan, or a matching set for both squads to wear on the morning of.
Gift Bags & Hampers – The beauty of a well-built gift bag is that it lets you combine multiple products into one gorgeous package. How about a hip flask, a personalized tumbler, and a tote bag wrapped up with tissue paper, ribbon, and a handwritten tag? Layer up your products, keep the presentation tight, and watch people actually shed a tear opening them. It happens more than you’d think!
How to Personalize His & Hers Wedding Party Gifts
Personalization is what takes a nice gift and makes it the gift. Popular options include names, initials, the wedding date, roles within the party, or even a short quote or phrase that means something specific to the group. The more specific it is to them, the more it’ll land!
When you’re personalizing across both parties, the trick is keeping a consistent design thread even when the products are different. Stick to the same font style across his and hers items, or use a shared color from your wedding palette. It doesn’t need to be identical – it just needs to feel like it belongs together.
Wrapping It Up (Literally and Figuratively)
Matching his and hers wedding party gifts are one of the simplest, most effective ways to make everyone in your squad feel equally seen, celebrated, and genuinely appreciated. Whether it’s the bridal party clinking champagne flutes at 9am or the groomsmen passing a hip flask before the ceremony (we’re not judging), the right gift makes the moment.
And if you’re thinking beyond the wedding party, the gifting doesn’t have to stop there. Check out our guide to “Wedding Place Settings that Double as Party Favors” for clever ways to make your reception tables just as personal and memorable. Or if you’re after even more inspiration for the big day, our roundup of “16 Wedding Favors That Will Wow Your Guests” has plenty of ideas to keep the celebrations going. So whether your vibe is classic and elegant or fun and a little chaotic, there’s a his-and-hers gift set out there with your wedding party’s name on it. Quite literally!
Meg is a Content Specialist at Zazzle in Cork. Born and bred Corkonian. An avid animal lover with two cats named Beamish and Biscuit, a dog named Fudge, a fish called Panda and a fiancé called Leigh. Favorite pastimes include wearing anything animal print, vintage and charity shopping, venturing down the rabbit-hole on niche conspiracy theories, reading books and board games.