Hello hello, and welcome back to our party guides! Today we’ve got a rather special one, inspired by the lucky LGBTQ+ bachelor(ette)s. Pre-wedding bashes are a wild ride (or not, whatever you prefer), so we thought we’d provide some inspo to help you plan it out! Whether you’re planning the party for your best friend (or you ARE the best friend), jot down anything and everything you’d enjoy!
Party Prep 101: The Pre-Bash Game Plan
What’s that saying? “Failing to plan is planning to fail.” Don’t let that phrase scare you, though: some of us aren’t the best organizers, and that’s okay! All you need is any old planner you’ve got lying around, a binder to keep your booking bits in one place, and all the positive energy you can spare! Then it’s just a matter of doing some research (which, if you’re here, you’ve already started, so hats off to you)! And if you’ve got a date decided, then some fun invitations will certainly add an extra touch of excitement to the process!
Shenanigans & Adventures
Now’s the time to throw on that thinking cap and get to the main event! Maybe the bachelor(ette) dropped a few rather obvious hints, here and there, of their ideal activities; “Oh, how I loooove a murder mystery party” (for example). But even if you didn’t get any obvious hints, there’s still plenty of time, and here’s a list to get you on your way!
Daytime Shenanigans
- Spa Day – Warning: may cause excess relaxation.
- Tie-Dye Party – A little tie-dye goes a long way in spreading positive vibes.
- Pool Party – Making waves before making vows.
- Group Hike – Serving looks, sweat, and sheer determination.
- Kayaking – Wet hair? Who cares!
- Park Picnic – Don’t forget to pack the pride in the picnic basket!
- Game Day – Serving poker face and game day realness.
- Wine/Brewery Tour – Drunk in love (and merlot).
- Drag Brunch – Love is love, brunch is brunch, but slaying is forever.
- Mini Olympics – Forget about medals, you’re here for some award-winning chaos.
Nighttime Adventures
- Karaoke – Bad singing is welcome, but a fun time is mandatory.
- Nostalgic Movie Night – Featuring more drama than a Real Housewives reunion.
- Drag/Burlesque Show – Looks, queens, and tassels; what else could you ask for?
- Dress-Up Dinner Party – It’s giving eleganza extravaganza.
- Dancefloor Takeover – The only straight line you’ll walk is to the bar.
- Murder Mystery Party – Literally dressed to kill.
- Trivia Night – The library is officially open.
- Cocktail Party – Sip, serve, and do it all over again!
- Moonlight/Beach Ritual – It’s time for a little moon magic (and main character energy).
- Live Theatre – “To slay, or not to slay?” The answer is: always slay!
Double Down on a Theme
Okay, let’s be real – who doesn’t love a theme? It adds a certain level of pizazz and sparkle to just about anything! And the best part about a theme for a bachelor(ette) party? You can be as chaotic and fierce as you like! Pool party in 1920s bathing suits? Yes, please! What follows are just a few themes you could choose from, but don’t be afraid to go as obscure as you please, or even mix and match a few of your faves.
80s Disco Fever
Let’s face it, no one ever really gets tired of an 80s disco tune! Picture spandex, neon, and an ABBA-filled playlist.
Works well with: pool party, mini Olympics, karaoke.
Y2K Couture
It’s time to channel the flashy and chaotic style of the 1990s–early 2000s! Picture low-rise jeans, flip phones, and crop tops.
Works well with: tie-dye party, movie night, trivia night.
Masquerade Ball
Life’s a masquerade, so let’s have a ball! Picture masks, drop-dead gorgeous gowns, and a little mystery.
Works well with: drag/burlesque show, murder mystery party, live theatre.
Popstar Icon Party
The spotlight is all yours. What will you do with it? Picture glam, on-trend fashion, and encore realness.
Works well with: cocktail party, dancefloor takeover, karaoke.
Tropical Fun
It’s time to catch the wave and ride the vibe! Picture pineapples, palm trees, and paradise.
Works well with: park picnic, kayaking, pool party.
Retro Prom Realness
A night of unforgettable memories with vintage ambiance and modern moves. Picture rock’n’roll, nostalgia, and a little mayhem.
Works well with: dress-up dinner, movie night, drag brunch.
Details That Make It Yours
You’ve gotten this far, and we hope we’ve given you some solid ideas. But now, it’s all about those teeny details to make it truly yours. And in our eyes, that’s pretty easy. If you’ve come this far, you’ve already been doing just that! Choosing an activity and picking a theme to match is fantastic, and now all you need is a little silly merch to back it up! We’ve all seen those hilarious bachelor(ette) party accessories that say something like “They popped the question, we’re popping bottles.” Now’s the time to bring out those infamous inside jokes and make something of your own! Check out these t-shirts, hats, and buttons, and customize them with something positively ridiculous, or even just a little bit risqué. This is an LGBTQ+ bachelor(ette) party after all, so testing boundaries is where it’s at!
And that, esteemed guests of every gender constellation, brings us to the end of today’s party guide! Just a reminder: the most important thing is to let loose and have a blast! This may be your (or your friend’s) last bash as a singleton, so make it one to be remembered!
Adam L is a Content Specialist from Kerry, Ireland. His passions include going for long runs, video games, a love for animals, coffee, and travel!
