What to Write in a Birthday Card & Birthday Wishes

Beyond the obvious two—‘happy’ and, of course, ‘birthday’—it can be hard to find the right words to let a loved one know just how much they mean to you on their birthday. However, if you’re looking for some ideas for what to write in a birthday card, Zazzle is, as always, here to provide assistance! We’ve put together a handy list of birthday messages that will not only help you express your feelings but also make you look like a wonderfully eloquent blend of poet, philosopher, and comedian in the process. Follow our advice and you can be sure that when they blow out their candles this year, they’ll be wishing they had more friends just like you!

Funny Cat Birthday Card
Go Shawty, It's Sherbert Day | Birthday Card

Funny Birthday Wishes

It might sound like a cliché, but there’s no better birthday gift than the gift of laughter. With that said, here’s a selection of funny greetings sure to give them a good chuckle and get their birthday off to the perfect start!

Happy Birthday Friend Funny Dog Humor Card
Cool bright pink photos collage grid 21 birthday card
Funny Rock Pun Joke Humor Friend Happy Birthday Thank You Card

What to Write in a Birthday Card for a Friend

As the saying goes, “friends are the family we choose for ourselves,” so make sure your bestie feels every bit as loved and valued as a member of your immediate family with a thoughtful message on their birthday!

Happy Birthday Papa Bear Dad, Father Card
For Sister Funny Squirrel Birthday Card
Birthday Mom Custom Photo Watercolor Flowers Card

Birthday Wishes For Family

And now, of course, your actual family—the ones who love you unconditionally. We may not choose them for ourselves, but we are, nevertheless, delighted to have them in our lives… most of the time.

What to Write in a Birthday Card for Dad

What to Write in a Birthday Card for Mom

  • Happy birthday Mom. Wishing you a very happy birthday and a year filled with love and laughter.
  • Happy birthday to the world’s best mom. You taught me everything I know!
  • Forever proud to call you my mother. Wishing you the most wonderful birthday!
  • Happy Birthday from your favorite son!

What to Write in a Birthday Card for a Sibling

What to Write in a Birthday Card for Other Family Members

  • My sweet baby boy/girl, you are my everything. I hope your birthday is every bit as special as you are!
  • Best birthday wishes to a one-of-a-kind grandma/grandpa. We adore you!
  • To the greatest aunt/uncle I could have ever been blessed with, happy birthday!
elegant custom couple photo happy birthday love card
Happy Birthday Babe Gift for Boyfriend Girlfriend Card
Funny Corgi Dog Happy Birthday Corgeous Card

What to Write in a Birthday Card for a Significant Other

They really are very significant, these ‘others,’ and so the pressure is on to deliver something deep and truly meaningful on their birthday. That you’ve stolen your beautiful words straight from Zazzle Ideas won’t detract from their power one bit… as long as nobody finds out, that is.

Co-worker Funny Happy Birthday Greeting Card
Peanuts | Snoopy & Woodstock Birthday Hugs Card
To Do Eat Cake Blue Birthday Card

What to Write in a Birthday Card for Coworkers

Whether your relationship is purely professional or you’ve actually forged a strong friendship that transcends the workplace, you’ll find a suitable birthday message in the shortlist below!

Belated Birthday Card - Late but with Love Turtle
Belated Birthday, Funny, It's NACHO Birthday Card
Cute Sloth Belated Birthday Card

Belated Birthday Message Ideas

Uh-oh, you’ve missed their birthday! In the age of Facebook reminders, that’s even harder to excuse. However, it’s nothing that a sincere and heartfelt apology, or a little humor can’t fix. And by the way, if you’re looking for a fabulous last-minute birthday gift, we highly recommend a Zazzle gift card!

Personalized 70th Birthday Over The Hill Funny Card
Wiping Away Another Year | Custom Age Birthday Card
Girly Pink Glitter 21st Birthday BIG Card

Birthday Wishes For Special Birthdays

When someone reaches a milestone birthday, like a sweet 16, a 21st, or a 50th, you need a birthday message that’s extra special. Just like these ones!


How to Design Your Very Own Birthday Card

We hope our list has provided you with the ideas and inspiration that you were seeking. If so, the next step is to customize your chosen message and card to add that personal touch. To do so, click on any card linked above and then hit ‘Personalize’ to access our easy-to-use design tool. From there, you’ll be able to add your own photos, edit text, and experiment with a wide variety of other wonderful design features. 

Time needed: 15 minutes

If you’ve seen a birthday message you like, but the existing card designs aren’t to your taste, create your very own custom card from scratch. To do so, follow this handy step-by-step guide.

  1. Head straight to our main greeting cards hub.

    You’ll find a wide selection of different types of cards. Whether you’d like a folded card or a postcard, this is the spot to find a card of your liking!

  2. Select a blank card template.

    Scroll down to the ‘Create Your Own Design’ section and select a blank template to work with from a variety of different styles.

  3. Enter Zazzle’s free design tool.

    Click ‘Add Image’ or ‘Add Text’ on the right-hand side of the page to access the design tool.

  4. Add your own design elements.

    Use the options on the left-hand side of the design tool to upload your image files, write your own message, and add icons or elements.

  5. Adjust any colors or fonts.

    Change the background color or text colors using the options on the right-hand side – Pro tip: Find more help and shortcuts when using Zazzle’s design tool under the ‘Help’ tab in the bottom left corner of the menu bar at the top.

  6. Click done & purchase.

    When you’re satisfied with your design, hit ‘Done’ at the top of the page and then ‘Add to Cart.’ Congratulations, you’ve just created your first birthday card from scratch!


Sesame Street Pals Chalkboard Rainbow 1st Birthday Card
Red Wine Theme Aged to Perfection Birthday Card
Boho Watercolor Raccoon Happy Birthday Card

That’s it folks, we’ve reached the end of our list of birthday wishes & messages. If you’re still not sure what to write in your birthday card, our final piece of advice is just to keep it simple and speak from the heart. In the end, no matter what you write, your card will be a simple reminder to the recipient that you’re thinking of them, and that’s all that really matters.